Even if you live long, it does not mean that your children and grandchildren are healthy. The loneliness and sadness in your heart are the saddest things. So, living longer is not necessarily better, so what is the ideal age to live? The answer is surprising.

Living to this age is the most suitable

Nothing is absolute, and there are many happy old people who enjoy the happiness of having their children and grandchildren by their side and dancing together in their spare time. Some people take walks, practice calligraphy, drink tea and watch the scenery, indifferent to life and death, even when they are alone, they still feel very happy.

Therefore, in relative terms, living to 65-70 years old is most suitable. This is not a conclusion drawn from imagination. In psychology, there is a “U-shaped happiness curve”;

Happiness peaks around the age of 20, and bottoms out around the age of 40-50, when family and career pressures build up, which is the most tiring stage. It gradually recovers as we age, and peaks between the ages of 65-70.

Seniors at this age are essentially retired and do not need to work. They have money deposited into their accounts every month, even if they do not have a pension.

Now that I have some savings, I don’t have to worry about my children’s education, daily expenses, mortgage and car loans. My nerves are gradually relaxed, my spirit is also calmer.

Although their physical functions have begun to decline, they can still take care of themselves. Some elderly people work year-round, have exercise habits, and pay attention to maintaining their health;

Their physical condition is better than that of some people in their twenties and thirties. At this time, they still have the strength and energy to do what they want, such as dancing and traveling, and their spiritual life becomes rich and fulfilling.

Moreover, the children have basically finished their studies or are married, so the burden on their shoulders is lighter, and most of their relatives and friends are still alive;

If you are young, you may still worry about having children, but if you are older, your health will decline rapidly.

Many diseases come to our doorstep. As the saying goes: “Seventy-three and eighty-four are two big hurdles.” This is not superstition. The older we get; if our health is weak, even a mountain of gold and silver will be useless. Therefore, we must cherish the “golden age” of 65-70 years old.

Life is not about making up for lost time.

Human life is neither long nor short. Every age has its worries. Children look forward to growing up, adults worry about grades, middle-aged people worry about their ideals and family, and old people worry about their health.

Life is never smooth. Natural disasters and man-made disasters are unpredictable. Some people die young, others have unfilial children in old age, poor health, and a lonely and miserable life.

So, strictly speaking, there is no best age, and life is not about accumulating time;

Cherish the present, don’t waste time or life. No matter how big the difficulty is, face it bravely instead of complaining all day or even choosing extreme methods to solve it.

Life and death are decided by God, not by man. So, accept it and choose a way of life that makes you comfortable, so that you will have less regrets in this life.